Marshall Bruce Mathers, Jr.
ex-husbands
Written and reviewed by Emma Carter Updated August 11, 2026 Fact checked August 11, 2026





Real name
Deborah R. Nelson-Mathers
Occupation
celeb's relative, author
Birth Date
January 6, 1955
Age
71 years
Zodiac Sign
Capricorn
Birthplace
United States
Education
Lancaster High School
Nationality
American
Father's Name
Bob Nelson
Mother's Name
Betty Hixson
Siblings names
Steven Nelson, Todd Nelson, Betty Renee, Ronnie Polkinghorn
Is Deborah Rae Nelson a lesbian/bisexual?
No
What is Deborah Rae Nelson marital status?
Died December 2, 2024
Who is Deborah Rae Nelson husband?
John Briggs (husband); Marshall Mathers II, Berger Olsen Au Gres, Don De Marc, Fred J. Samara (ex-husbands)
How many children does she have?
2 (Marshall Bruce Mathers III and Nathan Kane Samara)
Like his wife Kim, Em’s mother Debbie also inspired him to write some lines of his songs for her. It’s a pity, but these lines were not positive either. Obviously, the rapper had a troubled relationship with his mom. He blamed her for his tough childhood and for the fact, that his father was estranged from him.
Their relationship softened in later years. Nelson publicly congratulated Eminem on his 2022 induction into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.
Deborah Rae Nelson spent most part of her early years in North Dakota. There her parents owned a house. She was born in the family of Betty Hixson and her then-husband Bob Nelson. Debbie had three brothers – Ronnie, Steven, and Todd, and a sister Betty. Her sister is serving as a housekeeper at Em’s Clinton Township mansion at the present moment. Her brother Ronnie killed himself and brother Todd killed his wife’s relative, for which he was imprisoned.
Debbie led a partying lifestyle. She wasn’t interested in studying at Lancaster High School and soon she was dropped out from there. At the age of 16, she got pregnant by Marshall Bruce Mathers II. The young man proposed to his pregnant girlfriend, after that they got married and Debbie moved to the house of her husband’s parents. There she gave birth to the future music legend Marshall Bruce Mathers III, whom we know and love as Eminem.
Her marriage to Marshall Sr. didn’t last for long, and soon they separated. After that Debbie brought up her child as a single parent.
The woman didn’t like to work, she changed numerous odd jobs, but for the most part of her life, she stayed unemployed. No need to say that their small family lived in poverty, and soon Em started to work himself to improve the financial situation.
Nelson also had a younger son, Nathan Kane Samara. Her family history and relationship with her sons were described very differently by Nelson and Eminem.
Allegations repeated in songs and interviews remain disputed and should not be presented as independent medical findings.
Eminem criticized his mother in his interviews. That inspired the woman to write a book, titled “My Son Marshall, My Son Eminem”. There she told her side of the story, which differs a lot from Eminem’s. She co-authored the book with Neal Alpert.
Debbie Nelson died in St. Joseph, Missouri, on December 2, 2024, aged 69. Eminem’s representative confirmed her death; she had been diagnosed with lung cancer.
Eminem’s mother recorded congratulation for him after he got a star in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in November 2022. She released it through Twitter. In the video, the woman said, she was proud of her son’s achievement, which he deserved. Besides, she said words of admiration to her granddaughter Hailie and her new podcast project.